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anti bullying

what is bullying?

At Unique Academy, we believe it is essential that all members of our community—children, staff, and families alike—share a clear and consistent understanding of what constitutes bullying behaviour.

We have adopted the definition and framework provided by The Diana Award, which defines bullying as:

“Repeated, negative behaviour that is intended to make others feel upset, uncomfortable, or unsafe.”

To further clarify, we believe that for a behaviour to be considered bullying, it must meet the following criteria:

  • It is deliberate, not accidental.

  • It is persistent, occurring over a period of time.

  • It causes the targeted person to feel upset, uncomfortable, or unsafe.

It’s important to distinguish between typical childhood conflicts—such as disagreements or struggles to find one’s place in a group—and genuine bullying. While some unkind behaviour may happen from time to time as children grow and learn, not all of it qualifies as bullying.

types of bullying

At Unique Academy, we teach children that bullying can happen in different ways and across various contexts. We focus on four main types of bullying behaviour:

1. Verbal – This includes repeated and intentional name-calling, using unkind or hurtful language, and making verbal threats. Words can deeply impact someone’s well-being, especially when used to cause harm.

2. Physical – This involves repeated physical actions meant to hurt or intimidate someone. It can include hitting, kicking, biting, pushing, tripping, or any unwanted physical contact that causes pain or discomfort.

3. Indirect Bullying – This form of bullying is often more subtle but equally harmful. It includes repeated behaviour like deliberately excluding someone from activities or friendship groups, spreading rumours, or using threatening facial expressions or body language to intimidate.

4. Cyber/Online Bullying – Taking place through digital platforms, this form of bullying includes sending repeated unkind or threatening messages via text or social media, encouraging harmful behaviour in group chats, liking or sharing cruel content, posting photos or videos without consent, or making prank calls.

How we respond to allegations of bullying

At Unique Academy, we aim to tackle bullying by trying to prevent it from happening in the first place and by tackling it consistently and fairly when it does.

Ways we are proactive (preventative)

At the start of each academic year, every child completes a one-page profile reflecting on themselves as a learner. As part of this process, children identify and name their trusted adults—staff members they feel safe to approach if they are ever worried or concerned. We actively promote the message that it is always okay to speak to a trusted adult.g.

All classes have timetabled PSHE (Personal, Social, Health and Economic) lessons each week, delivered by their class teachers using a comprehensive scheme from the PSHE Association. Through this curriculum, children explore important themes such as friendships, emotions, safety, and bullying prevention.

Our six core school values are central to everything we do and are regularly referenced when discussing behaviour and relationships, including anti-bullying messages:

  • Sincerity – We strive to be truthful to our Creator, ourselves and those around us
  • Knowledge – We want to learn more and to apply our knowledge
  • Respect – We show respect to people of all backgrounds as we value diversity and inclusion
  • Transparency – We learn from our mistakes
  • Productivity – We strive to have a growth mindset
  • Excellency – We always strive to do our best

These values are made visible throughout the school, including classrooms and corridors, and are regularly reinforced through weekly assemblies and everyday interactions.

Our School Council, made up of representatives from Year 1 to Year 6, plays an active role in listening to pupils’ views. Council members gather feedback from their peers on a range of topics and are approachable if classmates have concerns.

Furthermore, we raise awareness through Anti-Bullying Weeks.

Ways we respond to an allegation of bullying

When a child or parent raises a concern about bullying, the class teacher will begin by investigating the matter. This involves speaking with the alleged victim and the alleged perpetrator to understand the situation in detail. A senior leader is always informed and may support the investigation or liaise directly with the parents/carers involved.

Once the initial investigation is complete, a decision will be made about whether the behaviour constitutes bullying, based on our agreed criteria (i.e. that it is deliberate, repeated, and causes harm).

 

OUTCOME 1:

The behaviour is considered inappropriate or unkind, but does not meet the criteria for bullying (e.g. not repeated or not deliberate).

ACTION:

  • Parents of the alleged victim are informed of the outcome, either through a letter or face-to-face meeting.

  • The child/children involved are spoken to by their class teacher or a senior leader to help them understand the impact of their actions.

  • Bespoke PSHE lessons or circle time sessions are delivered by the class teacher to address the specific behaviours that occurred.

  • The class teacher and Senior Leadership Team will informally monitor the children involved to ensure the situation improves.

 

OUTCOME 2:

The behaviour is found to be deliberate, repeated, and harmful, and therefore meets our definition of bullying.

ACTION:

  • Parents of the victim are informed of the outcome, either through a letter or face-to-face meeting.

  • The child/children involved are spoken to by their class teacher or a senior leader to reflect on how their actions have affected others.

  • Parents of the perpetrator(s) are contacted and invited to a meeting to discuss the incident and next steps.

  • Bespoke PSHE lessons or circle time sessions are delivered to address the specific behaviours.

  • The perpetrator(s) are given the opportunity and support to change their behaviour.

  • The class teacher and Senior Leadership Team will formally monitor the situation, keeping in regular contact with all parents involved and reviewing progress after a set period of time.

How parents can help their children

The following steps are designed to support you if your child is experiencing unhappiness or social challenges at school:

My child is unhappy and has fallen out  with his or her friends.

ACTION: Start by talking with your child. Encourage them to express how they are feeling and discuss positive ways to play and interact with others. Suggest trying to play with a different friend or group of children. This is also a good time to gently reinforce skills like sharing, taking turns, and managing emotions.

 

My child is still unhappy and does not seem to have friends.

ACTION: Speak to your child’s class teacher. A quick conversation can often help resolve minor issues early. We can support your child by helping them find a play partner during break or lunch times. Our lunchtime supervisors and Teaching Assistants are also on hand to look out for children who may be struggling socially.

 

My child is really unhappy and there seems to be a persistent, underlying problem.

ACTION: Book a meeting with your child’s teacher to explore the issue in more depth. We will work together to support your child and agree on next steps. We also recommend arranging a follow-up meeting in a few weeks’ time to review progress and ensure things are improving.

 

My child is still unhappy and the issues have not been resolved.

ACTION: If concerns continue after taking the steps above, please make an appointment to speak with the Headteacher, Ustadha Hawwa Mbombo.

Email: [email protected].

Additional support for parents

The Anti-Bullying Alliance has produced a concise, clear guide for parents about anti-bullying. In addition to anti-bullying information, it also offers a range of activities for parents to complete with their child/ren at home to discuss bullying and advice that can be given to children at home.

Click here for the link to the interactive anti-bullying information tool for parents and carers.

Furthermore, these websites may be useful for parents: www.childline.org.uk ; www.kidscape.org.uk  and www.parentline.org.uk